It’s not about me…

“I believe we are here to learn and grow, and to become so abundant in belief in ourselves that we finally tap into the full potential of the greatness that is within us and share that greatness with the world.” –

Jeff Olson, The Slight Edge.

If you would have told me 5 years ago that I would be here sharing hope with 100s of people, I would have laughed at you. I thought it was “one of those things”. Was so wrong and was living selfishly. Glad I humbled myself, opened my heart to what this really was and became coachable. I know now, it has nothing to do with me. My yes is tied to so many other lives and families, putting down my ego has allowed me to be the light for others! As uncomfortable as it was and still is to step out of my comfort zone, I know that the more times I do it the more people that I will be able to help. I believe that rooted in every human being is the desire to make a positive difference, we want to leave a legacy, change the world. Yet most of us miss the fact that we all do make a difference. 


Our lives are our messages and regardless of if we actively try to or not, our choices affect millions of others. And some how we connivence ourselves that settling, not growing, not learning, not fulfilling our true potential only effects us and our family. That’s not true at all. You are either bringing people down around you or you are lifting them up, there is no human life that does not make an impact. Could I turn back, settle for a “safe” job, start watching TV instead of attending these events or reading books, stop caring about how to become excellent at what I do, stop putting myself in uncomfortable situations to learn and grow, party all weekend… sure I could. I’m not saying that I choose the right things all the time, but I know in my heart that I am fighting to be better every single day I’m on this planet. 




I talk to people all the time who “are fine”, shrink their dreams to match their circumstance, and think that I’m crazy… then complain about not having time, money and/or health, they bring everyone around them down with their negative mindset, not even realizing that they are creating a negative ripple effect that will reach millions. Or even worse, they promote mediocrity, excuses and “this is the way things are” mentality, giving others permission to do the same. They blame the system instead of accepting responsibility, thinking that they are the only ones suffering.
I choose to live differently, I choose to promote greatness. I’m not saying its going to be easy at all, I’m saying it’s going to be worth it. If you are not already, I challenge you to start promoting greatness in yourself and in whatever you choose to do. Watch what happens. A life fueled by passion and purpose will set the world on fire.



Like the majority, I use to live in autopilot and was on a path to go to the grave with dreams in my heart. Luckily for me, someone cared enough to share a gift of hope for a better future, belief that I could chase my dreams and that I was a champion. That is why I do this, I’m a dealer in hope. It’s not about me anymore, its about the millions of people that need to hear this message like I did 5 years ago. I thank God everyday that my life was interrupted.  



I work on myself harder than anything else because I know reaching my full potential is the best thing that I could do for the world. I’m in no way perfect and fight slipping back into my old ways on a daily basis. I constantly have to remind myself, It’s not about me, it’s about the millions of lives that will be impacted because I was here.

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